Workplace
It is estimated that we spend one-third of our lives at work. The relationships we form there are important to the product we deliver and for our interpersonal needs for relatedness. We all derive many needs from the workplace that have nothing to do with our pay. Some employees refer to their coworkers as their “work families.” When these important relationships are amiss, everything suffers including productivity, our enthusiasm for our work, and our overall happiness.
Knowing how to navigate the workplace with its many variables can be tricky at times. There is no rulebook for knowing how to respond to all situations that occur at work. PAS offers employees and managers a safe, confidential place to discuss workplace concerns or challenges.
When work colleagues are not getting along, the consequences can be costly. Productivity and creativity tend to decrease as people focus on their distress rather than their work.
Workplace conflict can stem from personality or style differences and can also originate in personal problems such as substance abuse, childcare issues, and family problems. Organizational factors such as leadership, management, budget, and disagreement about core values can also contribute. These issues can affect not only your work life, but your personal life as well. Individuals experiencing workplace conflict may feel stressed, anxious, angry and even depressed.
Common Signs of Workplace Conflict
- Employees do not like coming to work
- There’s an overall negative attitude in the workplace
- Employees feel they are not respected or valued
- Frequent unresolved misunderstandings and arguments occur
- Low morale
- Employees do not feel they are making a contribution
- Employees talk behind each other’s backs
- Tension is high
- Employees feel unsafe at work
If you have questions or concerns about these issues, or any others, please contact us at 617–353–5381 to arrange an appointment.
Conflict at Work
Conflict in the workplace is inevitable and not entirely within our control, but how we respond to it is. Conflict that reaches excessive levels can fracture working relationships, creating an environment that is unpleasant and ineffective. How to handle conflict can depend on several factors: who is involved in the conflict, the content of the issue, and the goals of the people involved.
Grief in the Workplace
Grief is a natural, normal response to loss. Although grieving is a normal reaction, at times grief can feel enormously painful, overwhelming, and exhausting. Beginning to understand your grieving experience and taking gradual steps to address your pain and loss can be important and integral components of recovering from your grief.
Suicide in the Workplace
Many people have thoughts of suicide at some time in their life. Often times these thoughts are just thoughts, not intentions, and can be viewed as a symptom that something is wrong, not cause for immediate alarm. If you are not sure if they are just thoughts, or if the person is really planning suicide, ask.
Violence in the Workplace
Violence connected to the workplace takes many forms. Dangerous or threatening behavior may come from a coworker, student, patient, a family member involved in an abusive relationship, or someone who has no business relationship with the workplace. Events of workplace violence may include threats in person, by note, telephone, fax, email, or social media. A threat may be observed in a written or oral form, and/or in a gesture that could be interpreted by a reasonable person as conveying intent to cause physical harm to persons or property.