We are a society obsessed with our own reflection, says Peter Paige, “only the mirror we are looking in is the 42-inch plasma in our living rooms. We all want to be reflected there, and when we don’t see ourselves, we feel invisible.”

For much of his Hollywood career, the actor, writer, and director has striven to make gay people more visible on television. He played Emmett Honeycutt on Showtime’s groundbreaking Queer as Folk and is now a creator and executive producer of ABC Family’s The Fosters, an award-winning series about an interracial lesbian couple and their blended family.

“As a kid I was so desperate to be a part of something, to feel validated by companionship,” says Paige (CFA’91). “I was an only child and we moved a lot, so I never had that sort of privilege of regional or ethnic identity that a lot of people cling to. Being gay gave me a little bit of that, but it wasn’t something I saw reflected in the world.”

Or on TV. Although gay people occasionally showed up on talk shows like Ricki Lake and Donahue, gay characters on scripted series tended to serve as either comic relief with obvious—but unacknowledged—sexuality (Paul Lynde, Dom DeLuise) or as guest stars in “message episodes,” such as Archie Bunker’s linebacker friend Steve on All in the Family.

Paige knew he was part of a paradigm shift when, as a young actor in Hollywood, he auditioned for the out, proud, and often sexually explicit Queer as Folk. Based on a British series, the show followed the lives of a group of gay men in Pittsburgh. It presented a rounded portrait of a gay peer group, dramatizing their romances, disputes, and bedroom behavior as matter-of-factly as if they were the Carringtons or the “Friends.”

Paige’s character, Emmett, was funny, flamboyant, and highly sexual, with a turn as a porn actor and an affair with a closeted pro quarterback among his storylines. Queer as Folk, which ran from 2000 to 2005, was part of a TV continuum from Ellen to Will & Grace to Queer Eye for the Straight Guy that Paige believes helped shape audiences’ evolving attitudes toward the LGBTQ community.

Paige had change in mind when he and writing partner Brad Bredeweg created The Fosters. The show follows police officer Stef Foster (Teri Polo) and school administrator Lena Adams (Sherri Saum) as they raise their brood of biological, adopted, and foster children, mostly teenagers whose romances, identity issues, and acting out provide the drama. While the show doesn’t feature the sex romps that made Queer as Folk a sensation, the mild­er domestic drama may have an even more signifi­cant impact on viewers, Paige says.

“When fans of Queer as Folk see me, they feel like they know me, like I was at the gay bar with them just last week,” Paige says. “Now, with The Fosters, we get stopped by moms saying, ‘Thank you, I never thought I’d see my family on TV,’ and 13-year-old kids saying, ‘I never thought I’d see my parents on TV.’”

A version of this article originally appeared in the fall 2015 issue of the College of Fine Arts magazine Esprit.