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Mark Bavis
 

Mark, I never knew you but you have touched many lives in a way you probably never thought possible. My most sincere condolences go out to your family and dearest friends. May you rest in peace.

 

BU Student
17 September 2001
 

Your dedication to your team and the game was what made you a fan favorite on the ice. You will always be a winner.

 
Greg Kalt
BU Alumni
17 September 2001
 

Mark, I'll always remember your tenacity and strength. There's a hockey rink in heaven!

 
Charles Roche
A Visitor
17 September 2001
 

God Bless You and the angels around you.

 
Paul Lobosco
BU Alumni
17 September 2001
 

Mark, You and your brother Mike were part of a BU Hockey Team that taught this country boy how exciting the sport was. I have fond memories of cheering you and your teammates on during my Freshman and Sophomore years. I was shocked and saddened when I learned that so many BU grads were on board. I hope that your brother and your family find comfort in the fact that the extended BU family are praying for them.

 
Rob Mattheu
BU Alumni
17 September 2001
 

Mark, your tireless effort and dedication on the ice made me into a hockey fan - and directly contributed to my pride in being a graduate of BU. Rest in peace. God Bless America.

 
David S. Wang
BU Alumni
17 September 2001
 

"The Bavi" were quite a pair of grinders on the ice--loved watching them. Also knew folks who knew them, and they seem like a terrific family. I am so sad for Mark's life being cut short. I pray he is getting his reward on the other side, and that his family has strength through this. Farewell, Icedog!

 
Gary Partoyan
BU Student
17 September 2001
 

Dear Mark, I'm also a twin. I know how sad it must be to part from your twin.

 
Christine Paris
Friend of BU
17 September 2001
 

Mark I think the memory that I will remember most were your vists to Rochester to see Mike. It was always fun having the Bavis twins together. I heard about you two from John Bradley long before you ever set foot in Rochester. You and Mike made the game more fun to watch. Take care Mike and God Bless you Mark and your family.

 
Kim Hurley
Friend of BU
18 September 2001
 

We're having a memorial service for Mark, Lisa Frost & other victims on Thurs Eve @7:00p.m. First Congregational Church of L.A., 540 S. Commonwealth,LA REv. Dr.Steve Berry will officiate Would like his family to attend

 
karen j. segel CLA'68
BU Alumni
18 September 2001
 

Mark, I met you when I was a freshman at BU in the Oct. 1991 -- it was during on those Nor'easters, and we just both got soaked by a "tidal wave" while waiting for the T. We both laughed at how each other looked liked drenched rats and then you suggested we go to the GSU to get some coffee. We must have talked for about hour --you told me of your dreams,your family and of hockey. Whenever I saw you on the streets you always gave me one of your smiles. Whenever I saw you and your brother on the ice...I returned that smile. But you never forgot our talk...because in late Feb '93, I was in line at T-Anthony's and I felt a tap on my shoulder...you wanted to know if my dad was ok...you remembered that my dad worked in NYC and the WTC garage bombing had just happened. When I said that he was ok---you just gave me a hug and said "Thank God. You know we'll get those guys." Mark -- I want you to know -- We will get those guys who have taken you from us. God Bless you, your family, the BU community. GOD BLESS AMERICA!

 
Amy
BU Alumni
18 September 2001
 

Mark: We never met during our years together at BU, but some of my fondest memories of college are of hockey games and Beanpot tournaments. You will never be forgotten.

 

BU Alumni
18 September 2001
 

Mark, you may not remember me, but I do remember you. I was a graduate student tutor/TA for a class you and your brother took at BU. Although I only had a chance to meet with you a few times, you made a strong impression on me. That's the kind of person you were. As a hockey fan, I followed your career through college and beyond, cheered for you in the Beanpot and NCAA tourneys. I was deeply grieved to learn of your passing. I would like to express my deepest condolences and sympathies to your family and friends, and also to those who have been robbed of the chance to know you, even if only briefly, as I have. You have touched a lot of lives. You will be remembered.

 
Dawn MacLaughlin
BU Alumni
18 September 2001
 

Bavo, I am truly blessed to have known you. I keep remembering and telling the story about a conversation I had with your dad. You and Mike were just freshmen and I was an usher in the parent's section at Walter Brown. It was early on a game night and you and Mike were on the ice warming up. He was telling me how proud he was of the both of you. He told me that night how he called you his bookends. I will always remember that conversation. And i will always remember your sweetness and your smile. You are missed.

 
Michele Sczerbinski
BU Alumni
18 September 2001
 

It has been 9 years since I have seen Mark. I will forever remember the fun nights hanging out at the Dugout after hockey games back in 1991 and 1992... But, I will also forever remember the morning of September 12, 2001... the day after. On that day, as a New Jersey photojournalist, I was looking through the World Trade Center disaster pictures on the AP wire before starting my work day. There was Mark's picture smiling back at me through my computer screen. Suddenly the 9 years that have passed, felt like only yesterday. A chill streaked up my spine and my legs went limp. I just did not know what to do or say. Mark, may your sun never set and may you be surrounded by stars of peace, hope, love and joy...you will forever be in my thoughts. Tanya*

 
Tanya Breen Flail
BU Alumni
18 September 2001
 

Mark, you touched many peoples' lives ways that you will never know. Your skills in hockey inspired young men, while your smile dazzled young women. Although, your life here was tragically cut short, be assured your memory will live on forever. May God Bless your family and friends and help them through this difficult time.

 
Irene
BU Alumni
18 September 2001
 

As Terrier Hockey fans, my husband and I enjoyed your talent on the ice while we were students at BU. We were hear sick to hear that your life was taken in this horrible attack on our country. Our heart goes out to your family during this terrible time. I don't know what else to say. You and the others lost on 9/11 leave a terrible hole in our hearts.

 
April (Rogalski) Steele
BU Alumni
19 September 2001
 

We travel through this life meeting people by chance and through circumstance that unite us in a way that changes us forever . . ."Go BU" forever a Terrier and a fan. Lisa Buono CAS '93

 
Lisa Buono
BU Alumni
19 September 2001
 

Mark, I remember having watch you play and am saddened to think I won't see you play again. May your family have the strength to continue on and for your sake...I hope there's a hockey rink in heaven with your name on it!

 
Melisa M.
BU Alumni
20 September 2001
 

Farewell, Mark. You were truly one of the good guys, and it didn't bother me one bit that you had some big games against my alma mater (LOL). I hope your are with your dad and brother now, and that God has a spot lined up for you at left wing. R. Uschak BC '91

 
Roman J. Uschak
Friend of BU
20 September 2001
 

When I think back to the first time I saw Mark I can't believe how much time has passed. I remember going to my freshman English class and sitting behind Mark, Mike and Tony. How can I forget going to so many hockey games and beanpots to cheer for the guys in my English 101 class. It was then that I began to have a true understanding of the game. I was so sorry to hear about Mark and my heart goes out to his family.

 
SG
BU Alumni
21 September 2001
 

I never met you, and I live too far... Italy is shocked for what happened in the States... you are probably looking at us from the sky and I'm telling you, your smile that I saw in the pic and that I'll never be that lucky to see it for real, just impressed me... I would love to see one of your smiles. You didn't know what was happening... you didn't know what was going on, but I know that you are still here, just like all the other people that died on September, 11. I hope one day I'll be that lucky to actually see your smile... for now,... silence, that's the only thing that is left in m heart...

 
Cristina Cociani
A Visitor
23 September 2001
 

To the Bavis family Sorry to here of your loss. I got to meet Mark and Mike a few years ago in Buffalo, NY where Mike Bavis was drafted by the Sabres. My bestfriend wife is a cousin of the Bavis family. I would like to say to Mike, you where a great inspiration to my son, Andrew when he came to see you during training camp of the Sabres and took the time out after pratice to talk with him. He sends his condolances to you and your family also. Should you ever come back to Buffalo, NY please look me up and we will go out to eat. Joe Silvestri 716-515-0528 E-Mail 1silvers@dyc.edu friend of your cousin Karen Birner

 
Joe SIlvestri
A Visitor
25 September 2001
 

I've go a picture of you I'll carry in my heart,close my eyes and see it when the world gets dark. I've got a memory of you I'll carry in my soul, wrap it close around me when the nights gets cold. God Bless --Thoughts and prayers, we loved you!

 
~K
BU Alumni
25 September 2001
 

Bavo, You leave BU with a void which will never be replaced. I can still remember how hard you and your brother worked in the Boyle weight room, the timed 5-mile runs, and working your way from freshmen to senior leaders. Being a twin, at the beginning it was always difficult telling the two of you apart. When you were with the baseball team, I had a mental reminder to the Bavi who wore Converse, and the other who wore Nike cleats. But with time, we all learned how different each of you were. And at the same time the two of you were always seen together. I remember the times we shared together in the Towers dining hall, parties off campus in Brighton, and celebrating the Beanpot wins at the Dugout. You grew up on the ice, earned a scholarship with your brother and so many other CM teammates to BU, played in the NCAA Finals, coached college hockey, and scouted for the LA Kings. What a great life. We'll always remember you for your courage, leadership, hard work, and loyalty to the Scarlet and White. God bless the Bavis Family. Go BU!

 
Dirk Baker
BU Alumni
02 October 2001
 

My heart leapt and a scream escaped my throat late Tuesday night, September 11. As partial passenger lists of the doomed flights flashed before me, a familiar name appeared. I had not seen you in years, but my memories are still sweet. God bless you Mark, and your surviving family. May they find some comfort in the fact that you are so fondly remebered.

 
B
BU Alumni
05 October 2001
 

"Today, the road all runners come, Shoulder-high we bring you home, And set you at your threshold down, Townsman of a stiller town." -A.E. Housman Rest in Peace, Mark.

 
Scott Bryson
BU Alumni
12 October 2001
 

Rest in Peace, I will remember you forever..

 
Jen
Friend of BU
12 October 2001
 

Mark, Although we did not know each other formerly, we were connected as brothers being BU athletes. Because of that connection, I am deeply saddened that you were taken away. However, I am comforted in the thought that as a BU athlete(Hockey player) I'm sure that you went out fighting. I will hold on to the hellos we conveyed as we passed through Case Center. I wish you and your family peace.

 
Markus L.Waithe-Alleyne
BU Alumni
18 October 2001
 

You were one of the good guys. It warms my heart to think that I was lucky enough to know you back then. Back when getting into T's Pub (through the side door)was the biggest thing, and parties with Danny, Dirk, Mike, Pratty, Doug, Shane, Prendy, Zoe, Jen, Sully, Cashman, etc... defined what friends were. I look now at my pictures from those days...and it's weird...that even back then, you had the face of an angel. Until we meet again for a Bud Light in Heaven...God Bless you, Mark.

 
Christine Sobieraj
BU Alumni
24 October 2001
 

Mark when I met you last year I had no idea the impact you would have on my life. We would talk about what we wanted out of life and you always told me to take advantage of the opportunities my BU education allowed. You loved to travel and you told me to work in Chicago and live in LA, you told me to see the world while I could. You had so many dreams.. You were a great mentor and friend over the last year. Whenever I go to T Anthony's I will forever remember sneaking in the back door late night to get some snacks.. In all the time we spent together, I never told you how much you meant to me..I am sure you know now. Your faith in God and the love you had for your family always amazed me...I am praying for them every day..I surely miss you goofball, but I know that you are in a better place... Sweet Della COM 2000

 
DD
BU Alumni
30 October 2001
 

Mark, I only knew you briefly but I will always remember you fondly. I was so upset to hear of your passing. God Bless you and your family

 

Friend of BU
08 November 2001
 

Mark, I never got to meet you, but I have some good memories of watching you play for the Providence Bruins, as well as watching you and Mike at BU while I was still in high school. You were a great player, and I know you were supporting your brother and the team in that comeback win last night. God bless you and your family.

 
Tracy
A Visitor
12 November 2001
 

Mark i never got to meet you but i knew one of your very good friends, and every time i would talk to him he would always say something great about you. You truly were and amazing guy. You will be missed but NEVER forgotten.God Bless.

 
Alyssa
A Visitor
12 November 2001
 

Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and how much I regret that I never got a chance to talk to you about something ! That NO ONE would understand but you ! I will never stop remembering you & Thanking you for soo much you probably never knew you've done for just some nieve girl who came into the city to put herself thru school. Thank you ! I do love you - I wish I told you when I had the chance ! and for soo much more - I am sooo sorry ! YOU REALLY ARE THE BEST !

 
N
BU Student
27 November 2001
 

Mark, you were always a great friend to me, you gave me a chance to do what I love most, play the wonderful sport of hockey, God bless you and from me and the rest of the LA Kings organization rest in peace, the world lost a great man.

 
Jaime Storr
A Visitor
08 January 2002
 

Unfortunately, I did not get to know Mark, but I have learned through the recollections of his family and friends what a wonderful person he was. What a terrible loss for his family! Words can't express our sorrow at your loss. He obviously inspired everyone around him to be better.

 
Nina Frongillo
Friend of BU
08 January 2002
 

Mark, I'm also a twin, and I send my deepest respects to your mother (losing such a wonderful man) and to your twin brother, Mike. What a tragedy to lose one so special. Sincerely, Terry R.

 
Terry Riesz
BU Student
08 January 2002
 

Mark, You are proof that only the good die young! You were a truly good person. It is so unfortunate that the world won't have you in it. You were the best! Nina

 
Nina
BU Student
08 January 2002
 

Those lucky enough to know you will NEVER forget you. I just read today that members of the Los Angeles Kings Hockey Team spent its off-day this Tuesday in New York City visiting ground zero in memory of the "two beloved members of their franchise" lost on September 11th. You have touched so many lives! I hope your family gets to read the impact that you made on so many! Goodbye, my friend.

 
Kathy
BU Alumni
14 January 2002
 

Bavo, Going to a Bruins game recently brought up such great memories of you playing hockey. There's gotta be sports where you are! I miss your tenacity for life. Dougie '93

 
Dougie
BU Student
24 January 2002
 

Mrs. Bavis, I lost a friend a few years ago. When David died he was the third child to leave his mother. Too much for anyone to bear in one lifetime. It broke my heart to read your family's story. I never knew your son, but somehow I'm sure he loved and cherished you above all else. I hope you are able to find peace some day and that your family feels some comfort in knowing that the world cries and mourns for the loss of your son. God bless you and protect your family.

 
liz
BU Alumni
29 January 2002
 

Mark, you are always remembered and you have touched soo many lives! and you touched mine. I am truly sorry, everyday! The beanpot is Monday, We all know you will be there, No doubt ! You will be forever in my heart !I hope you know ? God Bless !

 
NIKI
Friend of BU
04 February 2002
 

El Marko, Even though hockey was your game, jJust thinking of getting together with friends tomorrow to watch the Pats makes me think of how much you would have enjoyed the game over a few beers. Every get together when you were there was full of life. You'll be thought of, talked about and missed tomorrow. Eric K.

 
Eric K.
A Visitor
04 February 2002
 

I can only hope you know what a difference you made in Harry's life. You are thought of often; and will always be in our prayers.

 
linda schwefel
A Visitor
06 February 2002
 

Mark, You were such a good friend and a great competitor on the ice. You truly were one of the good ones. See ya, buddy.

 
MIchael O'Brien
BU Alumni
11 February 2002
 

Bavo, I remember you talking about the things that were important to you -- family, friends & hockey and your mother's cooking. I miss you.

 
Anonymous
A Visitor
11 February 2002
 

A vistory in the Bean Pot. Wouldn't you have enjoyed that -- BIGTIME!

 
Anonymous
BU Alumni
12 February 2002
 

MARK, THEY WON THE BEANPOT JUST FOR YOU.WHAT AN HONOR

 
anonymous
BU Student
19 February 2002
 

You were a sweetheart -- full of kindness, generosity & love. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you.

 
Rita
Friend of BU
20 February 2002
 

Mark, During the last hockey scrimmage you ran for the local kids (on your own time as a favor), you showed all that's good about the game -- a message that many kids today don't always get. Well my son did, thanks to your shining example.

 
Cathy
A Visitor
22 February 2002
 

I dread it that your birthday is coming on the 13th. So many good times and memories will hit me and the many others touched by your life. It sure isn't as much fun without you in our lives.

 
Someone whose life you touched
Friend of BU
11 March 2002
 

It seems unreal and so sad to think of your 32nd birthday on March 13th without you being here. You are missed and you will be missed and thought of on Wednesday.

 
Pat
Friend of BU
11 March 2002
 

I am a couple hrs early,but you know I can't wait til your my age. * HAPPY BIRTHDAY !! I MISS YOU SOOO MUCH !! I wish I told you !! Your family is always in my prayers. Your FOREVER in our hearts !

 
ND
Friend of BU
21 March 2002
 

Hey Bavo... Thinking of you while I was in LA during the week of your 32nd birthday...You are missed more than words can describe...

 

BU Alumni
21 March 2002
 

Having been in the U.K. when 9/11 happened, I had no idea that BU alumni had been so hard hit. Just the loss from this one institution is beyond comprehension. We lost some very good people, but none better than Mark Bavis. Just a nice, nice guy, always with a smile on his face. He was someone who went out of his way never to hurt anyone. I hope Mike and the Bavis family are coping.

 
Dennis Gallagher
BU Alumni
26 March 2002
 

Though I never met you I am sure that you touched many lives. In reading all the thoughts that everyone wrote for you, I can tell that you were a very special person. We share birthdays, thought you were a little older than I. I just turned 19 and I still get chills up and down my spine when I think about what happened on that fatefull day of 9-11 and how many great lives were cut short. Happy late Birthday Mark. My thoughts and prayers go out to Michael and the rest of Marks family. May you someday find some since of peace in your lives. God Bless America!

 
Heather
A Visitor
09 April 2002
 

I DID NOT DIE Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there. I do not sleep I am a thousand winds that blow I am the diamond's glint on snow I am the sunlight on ripened grain I am the gentle autumn's rain When you awaken in the morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight I am the soft stars that shine at night Do not stand on my grave and cry I am not there. I did not die

 
A friend
BU Student
09 April 2002
 

More than six months and I still can't believe you're gone. Not a day goes by that you aren't thought of and the pain of losing you will forever be in my heart. God bless you, Mark.

 
Christy
BU Alumni
22 April 2002
 

Just seeing your beautiful smile in the picture that BU has provided on its site brings back so many memories of your goodness. What a terrific loss those who were fortunate enough to know you this has been. I want to thank the BU staff/students for providing this forum for those of us who still can't believe our friends and loved ones are gone. It helps to share and to read about the impact our special friends have had on the world. God bless.

 
Kerry Riley
BU Alumni
22 April 2002
 

To the Bavis Family: Please accept my sorrow at the passing of Mark. It was a joy to watch him play hockey at BU. I'm sure many who watched him were inspired about the game. You couldn't help but be. Mark, you'll always be remembered.

 
Kevin Coughlin
A Visitor
22 April 2002
 

Just reading about Mark's family made me aware that Mrs. Bavis has gone through the most unbelievable thing, losing two children. You must be so proud of Mark.

 
Tanya Smith
BU Alumni
22 April 2002
 

When I was a freshman at BU, all my girlfriends (& me)had a huge crush on upper classman Mark Bavis. Not only was he handsome athlete, he was a super guy, a gentleman. I am so sorry about Mark's passing.

 
Janet F. Miller
BU Alumni
10 May 2002
 

When I came to Boston from the south to attend BU, I had never seen a hockey game. Watching the "Bavi" (Mark and Mike) play was infectious and I became a big fan. And I still love hockey to this day. Can't believe one of the amazing "Bavi" is gone in such a senseless way.

 
J. Jackson
BU Alumni
10 May 2002
 

There will never be a day when you're not in my thoughts and prayers. Any time I run into people who knew you (and it seems like everyone did), we all remark on your goodness, kindness and how terribly much we miss you. I have learned from your passing to tell the important people in my life how very much I care. What an awful way to learn that lesson. I only wish I had the chance to tell you.

 
MC
BU Alumni
15 May 2002
 

To Mark's family. It doesn't get any easier to contemplate the loss of one with so much promise. The values that Mark had, the life he led and the kind of man he was is a tribute to you. Reading about the impact he has made on so many lives -- hockey teams he has coached in the past, colleagues, the L.A. Kings who have held several events in Mark's honor, and it goes on and on. Deepest sympathies on the loss of Mark under these worst of circumstances. Christine Coffey

 
Chris Coffey
Friend of BU
30 May 2002
 

I was fortunate to meet your sister Kelly who had a picture of you that she held high during the final ceremonies at Ground Zero recently. My wife and I got to know you through her as she related what a remarkable brother and friend you were to so many. It was her first time seeing/meeting other families who have suffered this terrible tragedy. Your name and memory live on through those who loved you.

 
John - visitor to NY
Friend of BU
11 June 2002
 

It's now been nine months and still so hard to believe. People talk about closure -- how can there ever be closure?

 
JJK
Friend of BU
20 June 2002
 

To all the families: We grow great by dreams. All big men are dreamers. They see things in the soft haze of a spring day or in the red fire of a long winter's evening. Some of us let these great dreams die, but others nourish and protect them, nurse them through bad days till they bring them to the sunshine and light which comes always to those who sincerely hope their dreams will come true." - Woodrow Wilson

 
Katie C.
BU Alumni
20 June 2002
 

Mark Bavis The definition of hero is a person noted for feats of courage or nobility of purpose, especially one who has risked or sacrificed his or her life. Mark Bavis is exactly that. He was courageous in a time of desperation, and his life was sacrificed for his country. I first met Mark Bavis in August of 1999 when I was playing hockey for the Chicago Freeze Junior "A" hockey team which plays out of Geneva, Illinois. Mark Bavis was then the assistant coach of my team where he coached us through every day practice and a long season of 60 or more games in which we were trying to get a division I college hockey scholarship or trying to get drafted pro. Mark and I became very close during the season and at the end of the year we both parted ways as I was traded back home to the Compuware Ambassadors who play out of Detroit, Michigan and he took a job as the head scout for the Los Angeles Kings of the NHL. We kept in touch every month or so by email, and occasionally ran into each other because he would have assignments to come scout some of our games. If you knew Mark, he was a stand up guy. Very genuine, very honest, and very tough. He was from Boston and played his college hockey for Boston University. He was home enjoying his summer this year when I last spoke to him with his family in Boston. He had to report back to Los Angeles for the start of the L.A. Kings training camp on September 11th. He boarded the flight with his assistant of scouting who was also in the Boston area at the time, and they were on their way back to L.A. Somewhere shortly after the flight took off, it was hi-jacked by terrorists. The entire world knew what happened to the plane that was supposed to be traveling from Boston, Massachusetts to Los Angeles, California. It was flown directly into the second tower World Trade Center in New York City exploding into a huge fireball, with no survivors. Only the people that knew Mark well could understand what I believe he would have done on that plane. I don't think many people would try to handle that type of situation. No one will ever know for sure, but all I do know is that Mark would have tried to do everything he possibly could have to save that plane. I am sure he did try somehow, but who really knows the truth? All we have left for evidence is a huge pile of rubble on the streets of New York City. The fact of the matter is that Mark Bavis was an innocent man, who did not deserve to die, as well as the rest of the innocent people on those planes. All of those who have played hockey under him, played with him, or knew him know that he was one of the most courageous men they have ever met, and he will always be remembered dearly in my heart as the biggest inspiration of my life. "Coach Bavis", I know you are in a better place now and that you loved your family, friends, and country dearly. I just want to say that you are exactly what the definition of hero is to me, and much, MUCH more. You will always be remembered in my heart. ~Stephen Brudzewski

 
Stephen Brudzewski
Friend of BU
24 June 2002
 

For Mark Bavis: July 4th used to just be a long holiday weekend of summer fun. But it has taken on a whole new meaning this year with the loss of Mark and so many others. God bless America!

 
Patricia K.
BU Student
03 July 2002
 

Mark.. Not a day goes by when I don't think of you and a smile comes to my face. I read all of these wonderful thoughts and reflections about you and I know you were the wonderful man I thought you to be. My heart tugs so heavily with memories of you and your surroundings, someone mentions Boston, BU, hockey, a Montero drives by. You voice is missed and your subtle nature. I can only live a memory of you now. My days will never be the same without your smile. My prayers and kindess always to your family.

 
Julie W
A Visitor
08 July 2002
 

Dear Mark (and Mark's family): I couldn't agree more on the comments above about Mark's goodness, specialness and the rare quality that a person who met you even briefly was affected by your nature. Even those who admired your hockey talents inevitably mention what a quality person you were. It's almost 10 months and you will NEVER, ever be forgotten.

 
G. Arakelian
Friend of BU
10 July 2002
 

I was a temmate of Mark's on the South Carolina Stringrays when they captured the East Coast Hockey League's Kelly Cup in 1997. He was also a great friend to me. Mark subsequently left his playing days behind to become an amateur scout for the NHL's Los Angeles Kings and later was one of the innocent victims of terrorism. He was a tough competitor on the ice and a true gentleman off it. I say a prayer to Mark every night and any time I compete, I give it something extra because that's the way Mark always played. He brought out the best in everyone.

 
An Old Friend
A Visitor
12 July 2002
 

I will be attending BU in the fall as a freshman and I came to this site to offer my condolences. I never had the pleasure of meeting Mark but, like someone said earlier, it could have been anyone one of us on that plane. My thoughts and prayers are with Mark's family. May you rest in peace Mark.

 
Lee
A Visitor
12 July 2002
 

In case any of the people who have written so eloquently about Mark have an interest, on July 21, 2002 Mark Bavis Leadership Foundation Pre Tournament Reception Celebrity Draw & Auction Boston University - George Sherman Union, from 5:30-11:00 p.m. July 22, 2002 Mark Bavis Celebrity Golf Tournament New Seabury Resort on Cape Cod For more information please contact Merilyn Sullivan (781) 938-1700

 
Merilyn Sullivan
Friend of BU
18 July 2002
 

I was privileged to attend the Mark Bavis Pre-Tournament Reception at BU last evening. Of course, the Bavis family was at the event. Representatives of all facets of the hockey world were there to honor Mark. Also present to pay tribute to Mark was Matt Damon. It was a terrific event and a wonderful tribute to Mark Bavis and his family after losing Mark almost 11 months ago. Jackie

 
Jackie
Friend of BU
26 July 2002
 

Reading over all the terrific things written and remembered about Mark fills me with deep sadness that we have lost one with so much promise, someone who was a good man, in such a senseless way. Although the picture on this site is old, Mark's spirit and caring come through even when he was playing hockey (part of the Bavi) for BU. The memorial golf tournament and the several services that were held at BU must be a great comfort and source of pride for his family. Such a waste!

 
Marcia Cutler
A Visitor
26 July 2002
 

I attended the golf tournament as a friend of the Bavis family. They were so overwhelmed by the response to the tournment and by the earlier ceremonies the night before at BU that honored Mark and included videos of Mark skating. There wasn't a dry eye in the house. Mark's association with BU was so strong and it will always be that way. Matt Damon was a real down-to-earth guy and very patient with the people trying to get his attention. Events like this that do some good are the only ways that we can make any kind of sense out of this tragedy.

 
Joe (From NY)
A Visitor
05 August 2002
 

Eleven months since I've seen that beautiful smile and felt your friendship and kindness. It seems like a lifetime since I talked to you and listened to your advice. There is a hole in my life and a hole in my heart at your loss. It looks like many others felt the same way about you. Can't imagine how difficult the one-year anniversary will be for your family and all the families,, especially with the graphic pictures that will be shown. You are missed and mourned every day! Nikki

 
Nikki
BU Alumni
12 August 2002
 

I just want to update friends and colleagues who cared about Mark on the outcome of the reception held in Mark's memory at BU followed by a celebrity golf tournament. It was a wonderful event that raised more than $250,000 for a scholarship fund. The scholarship will be given strictly on financial need. Thank you to everyone who helped and contributed to a very touching tribute to Mark.

 
Merilyn
Friend of BU
20 August 2002
 

The "Bavi" were the highlight of BU hockey for many years. Hearing that both Mark and Mike went on to make hockey their careers after colleage isn't too surprising. They were in love with the game. I have seen Mike Bavis talking about his twin brother since 9/11 and, just like when I watched him play for BU, he has shown tremendous courage. I know I'll never seen a spirited hockey game and not think of Mark and Mike. Thanks for the memories guys!

 
John O'Connor
Friend of BU
22 August 2002
 

Bye Sweetie, You are so missed and loved. Every day the loss of you almost knocks me off my feet. You were the best and more than a wonderful athlete, you were a wonderful man.

 

Friend of BU
27 August 2002
 

Vince Lombardi said: "I'd like to say that the quality of any man's life is a full measure of that man's personal commitment to excellence and to victory, regardless of what field he may be in." And that describes and typifies Mark Bavis, a fine man and friend.

 
Peter M.
A Visitor
09 September 2002
 

Mark, this week is utter turmoil. Not only for those who knew and loved you, family and friends, but for all of the wonderful people that did not deserve to have their life end this way. My thoughts go from why to extreme distaste of the hateful people that did this, to the joy and happiness of knowing what I did about you and then to feeling so selfishness that you were taken away, when I know we would have had a ton of fun the winter of 2001-2002. I recalled some memories last night that I had forgotten about it is so hard. Not one day goes by that I miss knowing you are in this world. I miss knowing your coming into the city, I miss hearing you and how you told me you were proud to be with me. How you were shy yet strong, you knew what you wanted, just a little apprehensive on how you were going to get there, but you persevered and came on strong. It's very hard to get closure. And I can't even imagine what those who truly knew you all of your life feel. I like many so wish we could turn back time. My heart is with you always Bavo.

 
j
A Visitor
09 September 2002
 

I often think of Mark and the others who senselessly lost their lives on that tragic day. He will live on in our hearts and minds. I never met him personally but have learned about him through others who knew him and always spoke well of him. God be with Mark and his family. Now there is another angel in heaven to watch over us. Dan BU Alumni

 
Dan
BU Alumni
10 September 2002
 

Marcus.... Thinking of you this week...Hoping that I can have faith in God like you always did so I can make it through this time. You are missed!

 

Friend of BU
11 September 2002
 

To the Mark Bavis Family, There isn't a day that passes that doesn't have a thought of Mark and a prayer for him and your family. It will always be that way for us as for you. Tomorrow will be a heartwrenching day. There will be comfort in sharing it with loved ones.

 
The Schwefel Family
BU Student
11 September 2002
 

To the Bavis Family, We extend our thought to you on this First Anniversary. Mark and all of you will be remembered in our prayers as you have since that tragic day. As a former neighbor and friend our hearts and love go out to all of your and it with very sad hearts that we will be marking this terrible day. Nothing can return Mark to you, but we hope that with time and help each moment will get just that much easier. From our family to yours' we send Gods blessing and prayers. Mark with be very missed but not ever forgotten.

 
Iarrobino Family
Friend of BU
11 September 2002
 

To the Bavis Family: I am so angry today at what these terrorists took from us. The good that has come from it, like renewed patriotism and higher regard for our fellow man, doesn't nearly make up for the murder of innocent people. Each of those victims has a cluster of people who have been affected by 9-11. Our family is just one of the cluster enormously impacted by the loss of Mark Bavis. May this anniversary be peaceful.

 
The Scofield Family
Friend of BU
11 September 2002
 

Thinking of you today Mark and my prayers are with Michael and all of your family. You are missed.

 
A Sacred Heart Friend
A Visitor
11 September 2002
 

Mark, Both you and Mike are in my thoughts today. Still can't believe I won't see the both of you at the Dugout after the Beanpot. You are missed. -Michael BU Alumn

 
Michael
BU Alumni
11 September 2002
 

To the Family of Mark Bavis: Our family stills holds dear happy memories of the good times Mark shared with us. His kind spirit lives on in our hearts, and we will never forget him. We can never think of September 11th without a tug at our hearts as we remember Mark. He was a special to all of us.

 
The Macleod Family
Friend of BU
11 September 2002
 

Mark: Really miss you buddy. You were truly a good guy and I think of you often. It's a sad, sad day for us all.

 
Kevin Coughlin
Friend of BU
11 September 2002
 

Mark, You were very important to me and I miss you very much. If it weren't for you I probably still wouldn't be able to make a "crisp" pass, or even stop on my right side. I have to say that walking into a rink knowing that you won't be there is a very hard thing. My thoughts are with your family today...I love you, and miss you...

 
Darcie a.k.a "Brat"
Friend of BU
11 September 2002
 

Mark, it has been one year since your passing and my thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Although I did not know you very well I am deeply saddened by your passing.I see signs for your scholarship fundraiser and still get chills. God bless and rest in peace..until we meet again

 

Friend of BU
11 September 2002
 

The Bavis Family, You are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. I went to CM with Mark and Mike and while I didn’t know them personally, I vividly remember how well-liked they were by everyone at school. Please know that many people who may not have known you personally, but had some other connection to you are thinking of you often.

 
Jeff
A Visitor
11 September 2002
 

I am forever greatful that my son Harry was blessed with having had Mark as a coach at Harvard and more importantly as a friend for life. Mark was a man of the highest integrity, character, and loyalty. His family and his university should be very proud of him. I will think of him every day for the rest of my life. God Bless you all.

 
Mitch Schwefel
A Visitor
11 September 2002
 

I remember hearing about you while I was a student at BU ('94). I am also a Boston native. We were so close in age. In such a short moment in time, you have accomplished alot. I just wish you were able to live out all your dreams. You and your family are in my prayers.

 
Brenda Domingo
BU Alumni
12 September 2002
 

bless! be happy in the paradise!

 
zheng fuying
BU Student
12 September 2002
 

Mark, My son graduated with the Class of 2002 and knew you casually but you made a huge impact on his life. He is a police office in our hometown and spent his day doing honor gaurd duties in Boston in memory of those who died on September 11th. He came home that night and mentioned your name a number of times saying that his day was in honor of you. Our thoughts and prayers go to you and your family.

 
Lucille Dicker
BU Parent
12 September 2002
 

I wish I had told you, Mark, how much your counseling and advice meant to my son. Even after you were no longer his coach, he knew he could come to you. And I appreciate that you encouraged him to continue his education. Somehow when Coach Bavis said it (his mother had been saying it for years!), it was the right thing to do. God bless you, Mark.

 
Lisa
Friend of BU
12 September 2002
 

God bless you mark bavis. youre truly an angel. you will be missed....

 
J
BU Alumni
13 September 2002
 

I saw Mike Bavis, Mark's twin, talk about the loss of Mark on 9/11/02 and also saw the interview in the Boston Globe. It truly broke my heart to hear how devastated he and his family are and how they see the stories on TV and have difficulty believing that Mark was really in that pitiful mess that was made of the World Trade Center. Mike said that they have tried to make the best of this horrendous situation. He recounted letters he and his family have received from kids who were coached by Mark, and they continued to go to him for guidance and counsel long after they were no longer being coached by him. This was something wonderful that Mark's family did not know. It seems Mark didn't brag ... what a loss!

 
Maryellen
A Visitor
16 September 2002
 

I miss you Mark!

 
Patrice
Friend of BU
23 September 2002
 

It makes me proud to see that BU has kept this site up (as someone else has said) for over a year. The people who have taken on the responsibility of posting notes/messages will never know the good they've done and the power that they've given to those who feel so helpless in their loss of loved ones. I hope that the families will have the opportunity to view the comments before the site is disabled. Thank you!

 
T. Lerra
BU Alumni
24 September 2002
 

Mark was a great hockey player and coach and an exceptional person. I amcertainly richer for having met him, and I know that nobody lucky enough to have met him will ever forget him. Mark: I miss you. GO BU! Go Freeze!

 
Klein
BU Student
01 October 2002
 

As we start the second Fall without you, it is more real that you're not around, but not any easier to accept the circumstances. You were a wonderful man who liked to have a good time and accepted others for what they are, and I think of you every single day. Recently you had begun to become more religious and directed toward going into law. May you rest in peace because we'll get those who did this to you and the rest of the innocent victims!

 
Dana - "93 Alumni"
BU Alumni
01 October 2002
 

How strange it is that we walk through our lives, never crossing paths at any time, yet, we are so affected during times of tragedy. We connect with people who share similar affiliations as ourselves, whether it be school or place of birth. Seeing your name on the back of a jersey in my yearbook along with reading all of the names here on the website, brings sharp sadness as fresh as was felt a little over a year ago. I am a fellow New Englander, now living in Los Angeles. Your Los Angeles Kings have paid you tribute at their preseason opener game this year showing clips of your hockey highlights. 18000 Kings fans were silent, many teary eyed... Last season, the Kings wore your and Ace's initials proudly emblazoned on their jerseys. The Kings community will never forget. As a BU alum, and avid Kings fan, rest assured knowing that you not only have touched the people who knew you, but also many who did not. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 
L. E. Johnston
BU Alumni
15 October 2002
 

You are missed, missed, missed every day!

 
Deborah Perry
A Visitor
08 November 2002
 

The best man The best friend The best smile around

 
Anonymous
Friend of BU
19 November 2002
 

The second Thanksgiving without you. It still hurts like crazy not to have you around to talk to, for advice, or a laugh. I'm trying to be thankful in the spirit of the holiday, but all I can think of being thankful for was you in my life.

 
A friend
BU Alumni
02 December 2002
 

Bavo, I am truly blessed to have known you. You have touched so many lives -- not just mine -- with your goodness. You are always missed and loved.

 
Amy
BU Alumni
23 December 2002
 

i want to go to bu when i get older i was looking at the site and i saw marks name so i click on it i read alot of the thoughts that people put and i just had to write something even though i didnt no him he has change my life because of what people wrote about him i know he was a great guy. so i know that bu is a good university because of the great people that wrote about him so i would like to thank mark and all his old fiends and i am going the bu! SO GO BU!!!

 
kelly benoun
A Visitor
02 January 2003
 

I had the pleasure of meeting Mark, while I was Head Equipment Manager for USA HOCKEY'S National Team development Program in Ann Arbor, MI. To me he was as classy an individual as anyone I have ever met. My thoughts and prayers are with the Bavis family. May the lord have Mark beside him. May his spirit live FOREVER.

 
Jose A. Ortiz
A Visitor
02 January 2003
 

TDriscoll@heart.net I knew Mark from Catholic Memorial, I am a friend of the Donato's and watched Mark nd Mike play hockey together. Please know my prayers are with the Bavis family. God Bless!

 
Tricia Driscoll
BU Parent
02 January 2003
 

I remember the exciting hockey games where the "Bavi" were killing penalties with a tenacity that made them stand out. So close were these two -- Mark and Mike -- that they knew where the other one was without looking. Thanks for the memories. Mike, you and the rest of the Bavis family are in my thoughts and prayers.

 
Joe D.
BU Alumni
02 January 2003
 

I miss you more and more everyday. You gave me the confidence that I needed when no one else would. Keep watching over all of us...

 
Anonymouse
Friend of BU
20 February 2003
 

Mark, I learned so much from watching you play hockey. You made up in tenacity for any area you might have been weak in. I've tried to do the same in my life and will never forget you, Mark.

 
Todd
BU Alumni
24 February 2003
 

Mark.. Happy Birthday 3/13. You are so missed! I'm having a beer in honor of you! xo julie

 
a friend
A Visitor
14 March 2003
 

Thinking of you on your birthday. How sad for Mike and your family! I'll never forget you.

 
Jean
BU Alumni
18 March 2003
 

You would be so proud, Mark, of some of the wonderful things your family is doing and saying in your memory. The impact you made in your short life is an inspiration to us all.

 
Cal
BU Alumni
27 March 2003
 

I am attending BU this coming fall. I would like to thank Mark for making a lasting impression on the univeristy and for making it a better university for future BU students. May you still be smiling on the other side and may you rest at God's side and may he bless your family.

 
Alex
BU Student
08 April 2003
 

To Mark Bavis: A true hero who will always be remembered as a decent man. He loved hockey but he also loved life, travel and his family. To have left such friends and such a family, he'll always be a hero.

 
Kenny
A Visitor
16 April 2003
 

Dear Bavis family, I attended Catholic Memorial high school where both of your sons attended. I also knew Bill Hanson,your sons' former teacher and hockey coach. I can tell you that on September the 11th, the Cm family was devastated by the loss of your son. Even if we all didnt know as well as some did. We all know how it feels to lose someone who is close to us. I give my regards to you and hope that you get over this tragic event and live on in your life. He will always be remembered in our hearts.

 
Steve fotiadis
A Visitor
18 June 2003
 

To the Bavis Family I met and worked with Mark during the summer of 1992 at Boston University. Mark was an incredibly warm and caring person. He made coming to work a pleasure. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sam Mbowa (South Orange, NJ )

 
Sam Mbowa
A Visitor
26 June 2003
 

As two years come upon us, you are constantly remembered and valued deeply.

 
Julie
A Visitor
09 September 2003
 

As the second day of rememberance approaches we just wanted the family to know "Bavo" is in our thoughts and prayers every day of the year. He is sorely missed. Linda Mitch Harry and Mary

 
The Schwefel Family
A Visitor
11 September 2003
 

Mark I think about you all the time. My thoughts are with Mike and your family today. It still doesn't seem possible. You will always be in our hearts.

 
A Sacred Heart Friend
A Visitor
11 September 2003
 

Mark was a very sincere person who I truly enjoyed working with. I worked with Mark at the Chicago Freeze Hockey Club. I was very sorry to hear about his passing and wish to extend my sympathies to his family and friends. Know that he will live on forever in all of our hearts.

 
Sue Griffin
A Visitor
11 September 2003
 

I can't believe that I am wtiting this again.. sometimes it seems like it was just the other day. Mark, although I only knew you briefly I will always remember you fondly..especially whenever I pass by T's :) God bless you and your family. Rest in peace until we meet again

 

Friend of BU
11 September 2003
 

Bavo...Can't believe today marks two years that you have been an angel in heaven! I went to T Anthony's recently and thought of you.. You loved Camela and the guys..I Miss you....Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

 
Goof Ball
BU Alumni
11 September 2003
 

Bavo, You left us all too early! I know you are arguing with Coach Walsh right now as to who will win.....BU or Maine....you won't win the argument! We miss you both! It has been a tough 2 years!

 
Billy
Friend of BU
12 September 2003
 

You are not forgotten, Bavo, at XMAS or ever by your many friends or your family.

 
Janet
BU Alumni
05 January 2004
 

wonder what it's like to play hockey in heaven

 

A Visitor
24 March 2004
 

You are in our prayers daily.

 
Linda Schwefel
A Visitor
13 May 2004
 

Hard to believe it has been three years since you and so many others were taken from us. I miss you Bavo every day!

 
A Friend
BU Alumni
14 September 2004
 

Bavis, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers daily.

 
The Schwefel Family
A Visitor
14 September 2004
 

Sitting with my family on Thanksgiving and being thankful for all the good things in my life, Mark came to mind. He was the kind of special person that impacted you as soon as you met him. I will never forget him and what he meant to others. I miss you buddy!

 
Jack "Jay"
BU Alumni
10 December 2004
 

I miss you every day, Mark. Love you.

 
Patrice
Friend of BU
30 August 2005
 

I had the pleasure of meeting Mark while I was the Head Equipment Manager for USA Hockey's National Team Development Program in Ann Arbor, MI. To me he was as classy an individual as anyone I have every met. My thoughts and prayers are with the Bavis. May the Lord have Mark beside him. May his spirit live forever! Jose Ortiz

 
Jose A. Ortiz
A Visitor
12 November 2005
 

Sorry it has taken me so long to post my sincere sympathy to the Bavis family. I played against Mark for a couple of years while he was with the South Carolina Stingrays and also played against brother Mike. I can clearly remember a moment in a playoff game, which was fairly intense late in the series, that involved Mark. We bumped and competed for a puck in the corner prior to a faceoff. As we waited for the puck to drop, I was taunting him a bit, and he looked at me and said, "I hope you can fight better than you trashtalk." With all that was going on, I began to laugh and answered, "I think I can or I'd be on the bench by now." He laughed as well, and we continued to play. The memory still makes me smile today. Anyway, if this reaches his family, I thought I could share this moment in hopes that it brings you a smile and to let you know that all these years later, we still share the pain and loss that you live with daily.

 
Patrick Cavanagh
A Visitor
23 November 2005
 

I had the pleasure of meeting Mark when he played in the minor leagues. He will live in our hearts FOREVER as a gentleman! Jose

 
Jose Ortiz
A Visitor
28 November 2005
 

There isn't a day that goes by that you aren't remembered in prayer. You were and still a very important part of Harry and our lives. You are terribly missed - and the years have neither dimished that loss nor made the hurt or anger less. Where was our national intelligence and protection?

 
Linda and Mitch Schwefel
A Visitor
12 September 2006
 

There is not one day that goes by that you do not enter my thoughts. I still miss you so much.

 
A friend
Friend of BU
25 September 2006
 

I had the honor of watching Mark and Mike both play in and against Rochester. The two of them together when Mark was is town was one of the funniest things that you could ever want to see. It was known that when one was around the other wasn't too far away. Its still holds true, he will never be far away because he will always be in our hearts. Kim Hurley (Rochester, NY )

 
Kim Hurley
A Visitor
25 September 2006
 

Mark, I’m thinking of you today, as I do often, and I just want to say that I’m sorry. You were taken away too soon! I loved watching you play hockey for BU and getting to know you at Shelton Hall. My friends and I had fun hanging with you hockey boys! My love and condolences go out to Mike and the rest of your family.

 
Eve Robinson Hanley
BU Alumni
11 September 2018
 

Just wanted to say 20 years later you are still loved and missed. Always in our thoughts and prayers, your legacy lives on.

 
Bth Thorne Smith
BU Alumni
12 September 2021
 
 
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